by Dale Carnegie There are 10 tips to improve social skills, among which are as follows ;
1. Creating Your Own Icons Emotions
"If you are enthusiastic enough, be
enthusiastic "
Emotion is an icon or a symbolic apliaksi a "you". And believe
that the emotion work in without you knowing it. (emoticon works backwards too).
2. The Reason these things, Which may Not So Much Help
"When you interact with someone, you do not communicate with
creatures of logic, but with being emotional "
3. Three Things You Should Avoid
"Anyone can
sharply criticized,
judgmental,
and
complaints,
but requires a unique character to be able to understand and forgive "
4. What Is Most Important?
"The road is straight at the heart of man is to talk to him about
The most important thing for them "
5. Focus outward, not inward.
"You can have many friends in two months, as if attracted to others, than you do something to make them interested in you"
6. Control Your Emotions
"Someone who is looking for pat cheers from others, will enjoy
breaks the silence on the other hand experience "
7. They Free Assessing You
"noise instead of thinking about what people say to you, you better build healthy relationships that will surely be appreciated"
8. Skilled How to Make People say, "Yes."
"There are many ways to make people say" yes "with a steady and
happy to you, and not just because of your luck, or desire
those who suddenly "
The best method is:
Give a REASON to say "yes" to you.
Ask a question "yes"
Give people a choice between two yes
Expect people to say "yes" to you and let them know they are expected to say yes.
9. People Are Set Mood
"You can make 9 out of 10 people like you with real-time"
Here's how:
1.by reminding that the first few seconds of a
relationship usually sets the tone and nature of that relationship.
2.then
by using the basic law of Conduct Second
Human;
People are very inclined to respond to people's behavior
Other
10. Positive Imagery
"Whatever the outcome of an interaction, suppose that as a positive thing"