Removing Negativity

Difficult, but must be done. Why? Because if not, the difficulty will be greater. And it certainly makes us increasingly small in the presence of that negativity. Then will come a time when the potential goodness of our dying. So at this time, desperation ensued. We are desperate to actually intend to be negative. When this happens, our differences with the devil too thin as a breath.

Before that happens, scrape the negativity becomes important to do continuously. Then do the appropriate steps with a sufficient dose. So the negativity that bind us as: lazy, delaying, lying, smoking, gambling, liquor, addicted to pornography, drugs, anger, sadness excess, arrogance, corruption, and so will be eroded.


True Intentions
Everything starts from the intent is not it? And any action where the value is there in his intentions. So niatkanlah to continue to erode away negativity. My firm intention to make the formula as follows: True Intention = Desire * Readiness to Learn * Readiness to face any problem.

Firm intention of this formula consists of three things. And is associated with the sign of multiplication, not addition. It means three things must exist. If one does not exist (zero value), because the formula multiplied, then the value of the automatic zero intention as well.

Decision Detail and Clear
Intention must be improved so detailed and clear decisions. Without this, the intention will be floating. Details of this decision are:

· Negativity what will be eroded?

· Will do a drastic change (and change) or gradual (gradual)?

A list of detailed and clear action.

· People-negative people where are we going to leave?

· Negative situation which support the occurrence of negativity ourselves?

· Equipment supporting the negativity which we will dispose of?

· When all those things will be done?

Removing Secondary Enjoyment
Why are we doing negative things until those things become a habit? Because we feel the pleasure. That was a secondary pleasure. In the primary we know it is wrong and negative. But the move also give pleasure. Well, the sheer pleasure of it is we do. Then realize that the pleasure was only secondary in nature. That is, there are primary enjoyment. Smoking was delicious. If the intention has been determined to quit smoking, start not want the secondary pleasure. Want to quit smoking pleasure primary. Feel the pleasure when you succeed do not be tempted to smoke. Wuah, once you know ... it's delicious pleasure that comes from a sense of power over yourself.

Doing something positive
Not doing negative things is not enough. Usually not durable. Then you need to do positive things. To replace the void left by the negative things. Some time ago, I watched too much TV. To overcome it, I do the steps. I firmly intend. I made the decision detailed and clear. I hate the secondary pleasure. And I replace the time watching TV to do positive things. Main bike. Reading. Write a book. Play with children. And so on.

It deals with the nerves in our brains. A termination of the relationship between the nerve cells will be permanent if the new relationship formed. The affair will actually end, when the affair was ended, and built a healthy and loving relationship with your partner (husband / wife) we are legitimate. When only decide the affair without building a healthy and loving relationship, it will form another relationship again affair. Was the affair a long time or with new ones.

Do things Productive
This step is important for the changes to our good and consistent. Earning a positive difference. Earning positive definite. Positive but not necessarily productive. Every morning I was among the kids to school. That's positive. But not productive. Make a note on facebook positive. Was productive? Definitely. So this important principle to a five. Progress comes from productive activities.

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