"Seize" sympathy and respect

The best way to realize the difference is close to mingle with all different things. Associating with people who have different cultures, different lifestyles, perspectives and different understandings. But you must remember, when you hang out near them and do not judge them.

Here is how to "win" sympathy and respect people.


1. Respect
How to get others to like you than by honoring them as is. What does it mean to respect them? Respecting them means not measure them by category or size alone. Respect others, even if he does not have a car, education is not as high as you, speaking not as smooth and beautiful as you are and not as pretty or handsome as you. In principle, one that means because of his dignity, his wisdom, because of his humility. All you need to remember, says Luce Irigaray in her book I Love to You, is that when you say you respect other people, you say you are irreducible to me just as I am to you. People will respect you because they attitude.

2. Be interested in Them
Feel attracted to someone else, even if in fact you already know a lot of things. When people talk, do not be indifferent. Show an interest in it through the bright eyes, smile, nod and occasionally asked, "Oh, yes, what's the story?" At that time, become a good listener, though probably not too important topic, or a broken logic. That person certainly would not say you were stupid because it could only smile and replied with one or two words. He will respect you because you make him feel heard, because humility you to notice it.